HERE IS A LIST AND SOME TERMS TO HELP THE BEGINNERS GET IINTO THE FETISH WORLD. IT’S ACTUALLY PRETTY INTERESTING AND FUN TO READ ONLINE. SO DON’T BE SHY, READ THE LIST AND THEN FIND YOU FAVORITE SEARCH WEBSITE AND DO SOME RESEARCH. I BELIEVE THAT FEAR IS BORN FROM IGNORANCE. AND THE MORE YOU KNOW ABOUT A SUBJECT, PERSON, PLACE OR THING, THE LESS YOU WILL FEAR IT. TRUST ME ARM YOURSELF WITH KNOWLEDGE AND YOU CAN KICK ANYONE’S ASS. ENJOY.
FETISH: Excessive sexual focus on an object of fixation.
TYPES OF FETISHES
Acrotomophilia
The person is sexually aroused by the sight of an amputation usually of a whole arm or leg.
Adolescentilism
The person is aroused by impersonating both the dress and behavior of an adolescent.
Andromimetophilia
A woman who is sexually aroused by impersonating a man. They purposefully look like and act like a man.
Apotemnophilia
This person is sexually aroused by having a part of their body amputated either by themselves or someone else. The memory of the amputation can serve to arouse them for years. It is the act of having an extremity amputated that is arousing; thus, they have to be awake during the process.
Asphyxiophilia
This is sexual arousal caused by loss of control over your ability to breathe. Self strangulation or allowing another person to asphyxiate you.
Autagonistophilia
Unlike exhibitionism where the person intentionally exposes their genitals to an unsuspecting stranger, in this paraphilia the person creates situations in which other people could see them in the nude if the person wanted to. For example, it would be like leaving your curtains open and walking around the house naked in hopes that someone would peep in the windows. It is the thought that someone may be watching that is sexually arousing.
Autassassinophilia
The person is sexually aroused by putting themselves in situations in which they may be killed. They really have to feel they are in danger in order to be sexually aroused. Unfortunately, many of them get killed in the process.
Autonepiophilia
This is the same thing as infantilism.
Biastophilia
In this paraphilia the person is sexually aroused by the idea of being raped. This is scripted and planned out ahead of time with a partner. The person does not actually want to be raped by a strange.
Catheterophila
The person is sexually aroused by the insertion of a catheter.
Chrematistophilia
This person can only become sexually aroused if they are being blackmailed into it.
Coprophilia
Smearing human feces on yourself or having someone smear it on you causing sexual arousal.
Coprophagia
Eating and ingesting human feces.
Ephebophilia
This is a form of pedophilia, but the person is very specific in the size, shape, and amount of body hair the pre-pubescent child has.
Erotophonophilia
These people are dangerous. They are sexually aroused by attempts not just thoughts of killing someone.
Formicophilia
Sexual arousal is caused by having insects crawl on their genitals.
Gerontophilia
The person is only sexually aroused by a significantly older person. There has to be at least a 15 year difference between their ages.
Gynemimetophilia
A person who is sexually aroused by a female impersonator.
Hybristophilia
Sexual relations with a convicted criminal.
Hyphephilia
Touching or rubbing a human or non human object is essential for achieving sexual arousal.
Hypoxphilia
The same as asphyxiophilia.
Infantilism
Dressing as an infant and acting the role of a child under two years old is sexually arousing. This can including some or all body hair and the hiring of a nurse or nanny to take care of you.
Kleptophilia
Similar to kleptomania, kleptophilia results in sexual arousal from stealing not just thrill seeking.
Klismaphilia
Getting an enema is sexually arousing. More liquid is associated with greater pleasure.
Mixophilia
The person likes to watch their partner or themselves engage in sexual activity. Usually this means watching themselves in a mirror.
Morphophilia
Peculiar body shapes and sizes are sexually arousing such as heavy, short, dwarfism, etc.
Mysophilia
The person is sexually aroused by dirt, mud, or filth.
Narratophilia
Telling dirty stories is sexually arousing.
Necrophilia
Engaging in sexual activities with dead people.
Nepiophilia
The person is sexually aroused by infants. This can range from newborns to about two years old.
Olfactophilia
The person is sexually aroused by body smells. Usually inserting finger anus, vagina, etc. and smelling it during sex.
Pictohilia
Watching X-rated films is sexually arousing.
Raptophilia
Same as biastophilia.
Scoptophilia
Same as mixophilia.
Somnophilia
The person can only maintain sexual arousal while having sex with someone who is sleeping. If the person wakes up they loose interest.
Stigmatophilia
Body piercing and tattooing but not ear piercing is sexually arousing.
Symphorphilia
Natural disasters are sexually arousing.
Telephonicophilia
Talking dirty on the phone or being talked to lewdly.
Urophilia
Being urinated on or urinating on someone. Golden showers
Zoophilia
The person wants to be treated like an animal wearing a collar and even eating out of an animals dish. This is different from bestiality in which the person wants to have sex with an animal.
BDSM TERMS & DEFINITIONS
AGE PLAY
Role-playing the persona of someone substantially younger (or sometimes older) than your actual age.
BONDAGE
Physical materials applied to a submissive or slave to restrain their ability to move and/or to otherwise restrict them. Also, the act of placing the submissive or slave in such materials.
BOTTOM
A slang term for a submissive and/or masochist. Many people use the word "bottom" to mean specifically someone who enjoys being given various sensations, as opposed to a "submissive", who enjoys being controlled.
BOTTOM SPACE
The psychological "head space" or attitude of being submissive.
BOY
A submissive (often, but not always, male) who relates to their dominant in a child-to parent mode. More common among gay men and lesbians.
BRAT
A submissive who enjoys rebelling in a childlike way against their dominant. Brats are fairly common in the spanking scene.
CONSENSUAL
An activity done with the consent of adults competent to give that consent. One of the central features of SM play..
COUNTING GAMES
Rituals engaged in during whipping, flogging, spanking , or during other forms of flagellation, in which the submissive (or slave) is required to keep count f the number of strokes delivered, often thanking the Master after each one and asking for more. Example: "Thats five, Sir. Thank you Sir, Sir, please may I have another, Sir?"
DADDY
A dominant (usally, but not always, male) who has a submissive "boy" and who relates to that submissive in a parent/child mode. More common among gay men and lesbians, but gaining currency among heterosexuals and bisexuals as well.
DISCIPLINE
Training by a Master in how they wish their submissive or slave to behave. Also, the punishment and correction administered by the Master when the submissive fails to act in the proper manner.
DOMINANT
One who enjoys assuming control. One who decidees what happens and when. A dominant may or may not be sadistic.
FLAGELLATION
The general act of one person striking another, usually in an erotic context. Includes spanking, paddling, flogging and whipping.
FLOGGER
A multi-tailed whip in which the tails are long, flat strips of leather or a similarly flexible material.
HUMILIATION
Activities which cause the submissive to feel shame, embarrassment, or degradation. Varies widely from person to person. Possibly psychologically explosive..
MASTER
A term for a male dominant. Often used as a term of address, such as "Master Tom". It is often considered somewhat rude to address a man by this term without being first given permission to do so.
MASTER-slave RELATIONSHIP
An ongoing SM relationship in which the slave is submissive to a male dominant.
MONDAY MORNING REBOUND SYNDROME
Feelings of remorse, disgust, fear, and so forth that sometimes emerge hours or days after a person willingly, and often lustily, takes part in SM play.
MUMMIFICATION
Immobilizing bondage, usally done by wrapping the submissive in many coils of materials such as plastic wrap, or by placing the submissive in a body bag designed for this purpose.
NOVICE
A person just beginning to learn about and explore SM. Often treated with special kindness and attention by the more experienced members of the community or by the MASTER.
SADIST
As loosely defined with the SM Community, a person who specifically enjoys administering pain. A person may be dominant without being sadistic. It's also possible to be sadistic without being dominant.
SADOMASOCHISM
A rather vague term referring generally to fantasies and experiences regarding the introduction of domination, submission, bondage, sadism, masochism, humiliation, and related activities into erotic play.
SAFEWORD
A specific word or other signal used, by prior agreement, to indicate that things are "really" becoming too intense for the person. Usally used by the submissive or slave, but may also be used by the dominant. "Safeword" itself is sometimes used at SM parties to signal a desire for outside intervention.
SLAVE
A person who has an on-going, structured relationship with a dominant or Master. One who assumes the submissive role, often in a highly developed and committed way to a particular person. Cling someone "my slave" generally indicates a relatively sophisticated, ongoing relationship between the two of you.
SUBMISSIVE
One who yields control. One who obeys orders adn may permit themselves to be bound if doing so pleases their dominant or Master.xt
TOP'S DISEASE
An unwarranted attitude of superiority taken by a domiant. Believing that bottoms are somehow inferior and treating them so in either obvious or subtle ways. Usually a sign of insecurity or ignorance. Dominants who suffer from Top's Disease often (surprise, surprise) complain about how hard it is to find people willing to play with them. a mirror image of this syndrome is called Bottom's Disease.
TWO SQUEEZES
A "squeeze signal" between players used to non-verbally signal that, "I'm all right."
WORSHIP
To adore the personage of the dominant. Often combined with performing some service to the dominant's body such as massaging, kissing, or licking their feet or boots, massaging their body, bathing them. Explicitly sexual activity, such as performing oral sex on the dominant, may or may not be a part of such play.
